But sometimes we forget those who are going through a tough time or for whom the holidays are a time of remembrance of a loved one who has passed.
I have a co-worker who is dealing with the imminent passing of her husband. He is in hospice and she has been out for a few months taking care of him. We’re so blessed to work for a company that realizes your first priority is family and will give you the time you need, paid, and fellow employees who will supply you with everything else you need, including emotional support. You don’t find many large corporations willing to do that these days.
I talked to her today and felt her pain of knowing she could lose her husband and best friend of 25 years at any time. During the time of year when people come together and celebrate, she is alone in a hospice wing dealing with impending death. It made my heart hurt for her and so many others going through something similar. Through it all she has had a positive attitude and one of generosity. She came out to a service project we did and has asked that instead of sending flowers and cards that we give the money to a charity that will help someone when he does pass.
It reminded me of a few years ago when my grandfather was dying of cancer. He fought hard to be around for Christmas and passed away shortly into the New Year. It was so tough for our family but we all had each other to provide comfort. But not everyone has a family to support them.
During this time of year, when we tend to get wrapped up in gift giving and celebrations, take a moment to remember the ones you have lost or to comfort someone living through the pain of losing someone. The greatest gift you can give is your unselfish love to another.
Grandpa Karl
Christmas 2007
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